Thursday, July 7, 2011

Pleasing people

Everyone wants to make others happy. Everyone wants to be around people with a positive energy. Everyone says it, everyone knows it: you can't please everyone. If you please everyone, you'll turn fake, you'll lose you true identity. You'll be mistaken as another. As selfish as it may be, you need to let people down at times. You need to make yourself happy. You need to feel the corners of your mouth curving up.

When you've accomplished something that was set by someone you love, their praise and happiness makes you content right? Seeing the ones you love being happy. It's an amazing feeling, no doubt about it. Most favours will be reasonable, but like always, you'll tumble over one that won't be so reasonable. Then, what will you do? Will you still do it? Even if goes against your morals? Even if you know it's something you don't want to do?

These are the times you must follow your heart and build up the courage to decline the favour. Tell the person that you can't do it, if they really did love you, they will understand. However, there are a handful of people who will not understand and will blow you off. Is that your fault? Definitely not.

Pleasing people isn't a necessity, please yourself is though.

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