It doesn't matter in the end

There are always people asking who you ideal partner is, what they would be like, what they would look like. And there are people are specifically answer that question. Some have vague answers. Well, me? I do have a few key points, I mean everyone has to have at least have that. But then, in the end it doesn't matter at all. If that person can return your feelings, has the ability to make you smile and respect you at the same time. Then that's it. Oh, and trust. Just the basics. People expect too much from their partner, and sometimes because of that, that pretty much drags their relationship downhill.

I know there are girls out there who want their partner to have a six-pack, biceps, a cute smile and so on and so forth. And then they go onto the personality: a sense of humour, academically gifted, athletic, a big heart so so on. It's so materialistic. No guy, no guy will ever be like this. If they do achieve this sort of fake persona, there will always be a flaw. There is so such thing as a perfect man.

And of course, the boys, now what do they want? Large breasts, big arse, curves, flat stomach, long legs. A sense of humour, bubbly, the ability to cook (gosh, that always gets on my nerves!). Boyyy, you dreamin' a tad too much! It is extremely hard to find a girl who has big boobs and arse and has a big heart.

Okay, what I'm really saying is that, in a relationship, you don't need all those things! You just need to share a mutual feeling with love, trust and respect. Oh, and they have to be able to make you smile. Yeah, all those things above are a bonus, but it's not needed for a relationship to work. You could pair up a hot guy with an ugly girl and they could be the cutest couple. And then you could have a hot guy and a hot girl together, and just as well might be the couple you want to strangle.

I really wish people would open their mind about this sort of thing and stop checking their criteria for a partner. Life doesn't work that way.

I know, this is a weird post and it's every where. I'm just not in the mood to write formally!